Lesson 4: Keep it Casual

once you hit the urban environment, your glasses wont help you.
You need to develop a game.
YES keep it very casual. Don't act too nerdy. Especially you are more into books and games than you are into going out to bars and clubs. However you should know that our society is living in an era of great media influence. This influence leads and drives the economy which in turn leads the people of the society into habits like shopping,clubbing and other social outdoorsy activities.
Now if you've been nerdy all your life, you may stay nerdy as long as you try to avoid all the stimulants in the environment. Like pretty girls and sports cars.
But if you think you need to get out there and experiment, its never too late.
Remember this though, once you hit the urban environment, your glasses wont help you.
You need to develop a game.
Some guidelines to follow:
- Avoid being corny
- Avoid talking rocket science with girls in their late teens.
- Avoid drinking too much to score. Drinking wont help.
- Try to initiate conversations very carefully. Talk about anything no brainer.

Lesson 3: Be yourself

BE YOUR SELF!!
There is no real trick or a magic solution to attract women. Just be yourself.
I know people who try to act like theyre something else. Tell you what most girls see through you when you act like that. Unless the girl's IQ is below yours then they would not notice.
But if you are looking fora decent girl friend, you need to be YOU.
Tattoos, wearing your hat backwards, GRILLZ and skeet skeets dont work.

Lesson 2: Art of flirting

So you are just some guy who has never flirted with girls before.Well tell you what,flirting is the number 1 tool you probably ever need to seduce a girl and turn her on.
IF you dont know how to flirt and get her into the right mood, you shall never win.
Flirting can be implemented in different ways. Sometiems just spoken sometimes acting and sometimes just the body language.
One of the biggest contributions you should implement to yourself is minimize watching PORN. Nothing in porn works for the most part!



Spoken: Well I`m not talking pick up lines. Im talking the way that you talk to her and the tone of your voice.You must assess your situation and her situation,personality and age criteria . ( Rule 1)
Once you do that, you move in slow.
Try to take things slow even in the way you speak. Speak less but more effective.
Always let her speak more than you. Remember that. If you are a chatterbox, you need to STFU.
Body language:
Always stare at her eyes directly.
move lips slowly. Tone smoothly.
walk straight and just be confident.
DO NOT try to impress her too much.Be very natural but in a way interesting.

One thing you need to know about girls is that the more you try to impress her, the more she will think that you are an easy catch. Most girls want a little challenge.
Hence DO NOT try to impress the girl too much at the first glance. hold your posture let her do the talking. Cause youd be doing the walking later.

If you master your language and movements ,you can perhaps bring any women down to her knees.
The way you look at her.
The way you talk to her
The way you are around her
The zone that you created for you and her.

Ladies Corner

Kiera the Tough cookie:

They have to be confident and walk with their head high, if they come at me looking down, automatically they arent going to be given the time of day from me. They're a waste of time. I think they should be smiling, not fidgeting or at least looking happy, again not scared which goes back to being confident.
They have a better chance of keeping my interest if we've made eye contact before and if they are quick on their feet. I'm tough and I tend to say what I think much more in a bar scene, so I like it when they can keep up. Keeps my interest.



Erin the hopeful:

They have to be confident for sure
being humerous helps too, i like to laugh.

Easy pick ups for the student ( Again)

Ok let me start from this. First of all when you are a student you should NOT be running around looking to pick up chicks. Because that is a waste of your time and money. However for the other 90% of you this is how you should start your 'game'

Case 1:
You see a girl that is quite appealing to you. Or you and your friend are walking down the hallway and you see an attractive lady.
First thing you need to do:
Always try to create an age criteria. Look at her. Does she look older to you? Younger to you?
In her 17-20 category
in her 20-23 category
and from 23-28 category
and if you are looking at 28 and up, then I think you could look afteranother consultant.
The girls in their late teenagehood tend to look back at you alot. Usually for these girls you dont need much of a creative pick up line. Or try to sound intriguing.
You could perhaps spark the conversation with a nice glare at her eyes.
Be very confident. Dont be afraid of talking to her.
Just approach her and ask her How she is doing and what she is studying.
Dont be too aggressive but dont let her think that you are hitting on her.
After the conversation flows, you may start throwing some flirtatious hints.
Most of the younger girls love the flirting. However you definetly do not want to act like a fruit bag.
Keep your initial conversation short.

Girls in their 20-23: This group of girls are the hardest to grab their attention to.
You need to be intriguing as well as very careful with how you flirt. Definetly avoid being pushy. Be assertive and always try to look at her eyes. Try to make her feel like you are not hitting on her but there is something about you.




Girls from 23 and up: Well you know that maturity is the biggest winning point here.
Some of the subjects you could talk about perhaps:
Current events.
Post education plans.
try to sound smart.